really...

How do you know when something in the past is just that, When it doesn't haunt you anymore? When it doesn't tempt you? When yall stop talkin all together? Maybe it's when she calls you or messages you out the blue? When you figure your never really over that person? When you just wanna fuck cause it's owed to you? All these questions come up (once again this has nothing to do with the conversation i had with her yesterday afternoon but more about the one i had later that night with him (no homo) and he doesn't know about her) with all this being said everybody thinks about they past loves and/or the 1 that got away. Personally i feel the past is never the past when it comes to Love (i capatalize it cause its important) i mean for the most part theres abunch of them that is just locked away but when you reeeally love that person whether it be for years or abruptly ended for circumstances after weeks or months of being together. They still entire your mind from time to time, shit even the ones that aren't that important you sometimes be like i wonder what so and so is doing, i feel its all about what you do when they are infront of you once again that determines the Future OF your Past. There is no right or wrong just in-the-moment, so i strongly encourage men and women to do what they WANT or FEEL if that person is put infront of you again you HAVE to take advantage of the oppurtunity and either kiss em, talk to em, be like it's good to see you again and leave it at that, fuck they brains out lol, hold them close, tell em you never stopped lovin em, tell em you hate they guts, punch they lights out, get down on 1 knee, just whatever strikes ur fancy, listen to your heart not your mind. I mean the consequences are gonna come whether they good or bad, but the point is that you have to LIVE your life and your FUTURE won't be right until you deal with the PAST in the PRESENT. I mean i know everybody says its in the past for a reason but like i said we'd never sit and think i wonder what so and so it doin